Don't Turn The Other Cheek
When we meet people we normally meet their representative. Meaning, we don't meet the real person until a few months down the line. The very beginning stages of a relationship is spent getting to know each other and just doing whatever each other likes. Gradually the real person reveals themselves. It may not be until you decide to have a girls night out that he decides to show his true colors. First he trips about you going out, next its what you wear, then its the friends you will be hanging with followed by what time you should come back. These things should be done tastefully and with respect to your mate. Fact still remains you are grown and should be treated that way.
A man is only insecure for five reasons. 1) Past relationships where he was cheated on 2) He has been or is currently cheating himself 3) He just hasn't been the man he should be towards you.
4) Physical flaws 5) Lack of money
Men usually show signs of insecurities by trying to control the relationship. They want to know where you are at all times. Who you are on the phone with. What you are doing when you are out of their sight. When you don't have enough time and space to yourself you will go crazy.
There is no reason for anybody to know your every move unless you are the president and he is even entitled to bathroom breaks without reporting his where abouts.
Some men become physically or verbally abusive sometimes both. Either way, don't ignore the signs. Don't think its cute and that's the only way he can show his love for you because its not. Love is NEVER suppose to hurt! Statistics show that men end up killing the woman once she has decided to leave. This is not a situation anyone should go through alone. Remember to keep your support system strong and if you don't have one that is what Girlfriend2Girlfriend is here for. Should you find yourself in this situation please send me an email so that I can help you immediately!
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